WHAT I CAN DO FOR YOU
Hello and good to have you here!
Are you looking for a relationship coach who will not only improve your relationships with your social environment and your partner but also with yourself? Are you looking for help after a toxic/narcissistic relationship to get an orientation for yourself and your new life again?
My name is Markus and I am a relationship and life coach.
I have been working for 16 years in social institutions and schools in Germany, promoting personalities and giving coaching sessions. Supporting people, understanding social structures as well as social interaction, and solving conflicts were my daily challenges.
Professionally, my goal is to help people resolve conflicts, improve relationships, and create something positive out of adversity.
The other side means that I spent 11 years in a narcissistic relationship. That I was no longer in control of my private life and myself as a private person. But from this experience I was able to see and create my new path in life: I want to use all my professional experience with my private experience and pass it on to people.
With love and gratitude, Markus
Yes, there are hundreds of rules that tell you what you can best do to heal or develop after a bad experience in a relationship. What bothers me about this "set of rules" is that it does not take into account personal and social circumstances. It bypasses the person who needs help at the crucial point: Exactly what experience does this person bring with him, where is he in life and his experience, and what does this person need in his current state.
I think this is one of the great difficulties of our time: Everything should and must apply to everyone. And this is precisely where the conflict lies, because it totally ignores people as individuals. And that in turn promotes how dissatisfied and unfulfilled we often are.
I am convinced that there is no "master plan" to help people and to promote personality and healing. Every person is different.
I am equally convinced that asking the right questions makes all the difference in gaining true understanding of the situation. And understanding, as well as insight, creates real healing and development.